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When responsible first-time home buyers need help buying a home, the family bank can sometimes lend a hand.
Younger home buyers face a mountain of obstacles, including rising home prices and interest rates, too few homes for sale and unpaid college debt. Student debt is a major source of trouble. When the National Association of Realtors surveyed recent home buyers who had problems saving up a down payment, 53% of those in the youngest group (37 and younger) blamed student loan debt for their difficulty.
Families appear to be pitching in to help, according to the results of that survey in the 2018 NAR Home Buyer and Seller Generational Trends Report. Among home buyers who made a down payment, 23% of those 37 and younger used a gift and 6% a loan from family or friends — the highest proportion for either type of assistance among all age groups.
Family assistance like this works best when the kids qualify for a mortgage on their own and parents make the purchase more affordable with, for example, a bigger down payment or a lower interest rate, says Jeremy Heckman, a certified financial planner with Accredited Investors Wealth Management in Edina, Minnesota.
First, the ground rules
To create a businesslike distance for these transactions, Heckman suggests that parents:
Consider disclosing the assistance to all immediate family
Consider treating all siblings equally
Use contracts
Document gifts
Formal agreements offer important benefits, says San Francisco real estate attorney Andy Sirkin. They define obligations and minimize misunderstandings. And if parent lenders die or become incapacitated, all their heirs can view the transaction and its history.
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500500
Min. down payment
3.5%New American Funding works with down payment assistance programs in 14 states, including California, Texas, Florida and Illinois.
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580580
Min. down payment
3.5%First-time home buyers may qualify for 3% down mortgages at Rocket.
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620620
Min. down payment
0%Veterans United offers VA loans for as little as 0% down.
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620620
Min. down payment
0%On VA loans, NBKC offers down payments as low as 0%.
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500500
Min. down payment
3.5%New American Funding works with down payment assistance programs in 14 states, including California, Texas, Florida and Illinois.
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Min. down payment
3%NBKC offers conventional loans for as little as 3% down.
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580580
Min. down payment
3%Rocket Mortgage offers conventional mortgages with as little as 1% down.
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Min. down payment
3%New American Funding works with down payment assistance programs in 14 states, including California, Texas, Florida and Illinois.
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N/ANew American Funding works with down payment assistance programs in 14 states, including California, Texas, Florida and Illinois.
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580580
Min. down payment
N/ANew American Funding works with down payment assistance programs in 14 states, including California, Texas, Florida and Illinois.
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500500
Min. down payment
3.5%New American Funding works with down payment assistance programs in 14 states, including California, Texas, Florida and Illinois.
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NerdWallet's ratings are determined by our editorial team. The scoring formula incorporates coverage options, customer experience, customizability, cost and more.
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580580
Min. down payment
3.5%First-time home buyers may qualify for 3% down mortgages at Rocket.
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NerdWallet's ratings are determined by our editorial team. The scoring formula incorporates coverage options, customer experience, customizability, cost and more.
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620620
Min. down payment
0%Veterans United offers VA loans for as little as 0% down.
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NerdWallet's ratings are determined by our editorial team. The scoring formula incorporates coverage options, customer experience, customizability, cost and more.
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620620
Min. down payment
0%On VA loans, NBKC offers down payments as low as 0%.
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