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How to Help Your Spouse’s Credit — While Guarding Yours

If your credit-challenged mate wants help, look into authorized user status, a secured credit card, or a credit-builder or secured loan.
April 2, 2018
Credit Score, Personal Finance
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When you get married, your credit files stay single.

And if one spouse has a good credit score and the other does not, it’s particularly important to maintain your credit histories’ separate status. There are ways to provide help if your credit-challenged mate wants it, but in a way that doesn’t risk harming your finances — or your new marriage.

First, determine whether your partner even wants help, says Amanda Clayman, a financial wellness coach and therapist.

“One thing the more creditworthy person needs to find out is, how much is the other person bothered by their low score,” Clayman says. If they’re not too worried about it, she says, then they’re probably not motivated to change.

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Do we have to talk about it?

Discussing high student loan balances and household budgets may not be the most enjoyable activity. Frame the discussion in terms of shared goals, because a high credit score by itself isn’t worth much, says Joshua Harris, a certified financial planner and lecturer at Clemson University.

Teaming up to address a bad credit score can improve your relationship, whereas nagging could cause friction.

Dreaming of a future together is fun; harping on about credit card use, not so much. Focus on the former, and work together on strategies to get there. Teaming up to address a bad credit score can improve your relationship, whereas nagging could cause friction. You’ll always have to talk about finances, and the better you communicate, the easier it will be.

Strategies to help

If your spouse wants help rebuilding credit, work together to identify the issue and find potential solutions.

Common reasons for a low credit score are:

  • Late payments.
  • A high balance or balances on credit cards.
  • Accounts in collections.

Here are three basic strategies that can help:

  • Have your spouse open a secured credit card. Then simply put a small recurring expense on it, such as a Netflix subscription, and activate autopay.
  • Make your spouse an authorized user on your credit card. Your mate need not even have a physical card. (Note that this strategy is more effective for those new to credit.)
  • Help your spouse take out a credit-builder loan or a secured loan. These products are often available at credit unions and are a good way to build credit. Pick a payment you both can easily afford, make the payments on time, and receive the loan proceeds at the end. The lender reports your payment history to credit bureaus.

One thing to (probably) avoid

Less advisable is co-signing for a loan or a credit card. Although doing so can potentially bump up your partner’s score, missteps could result in your losing your own good credit, and that could cause relationship friction, too. Proceed with extreme caution if you decide to go this route.

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