How to Deal with Debt Collectors

Don't rush to pay debt collectors. Validate your debt and know your rights.

Sean Pyles
Tommy Tindall
Tiffany Curtis
Pamela de la Fuente
Updated
Debt collection tactics can be annoying at best — and predatory, or even illegal, at worst.
It’s crucial to know what debt collectors can and cannot do — so you can assert your rights and manage your debt appropriately.

What is a debt collector?

When a debt goes unpaid for several months, the original creditor will often sell it to an outside agency. The buyer is known as a third-party debt collector.
This person, agency or company is then responsible for collecting money owed, usually on a past-due account. Debt collectors may call you or send letters, emails or text messages about a debt.
The Fair Debt Collection Practices Act, which sets rules for consumer debt collection, generally applies to third-party collectors only.
Has a debt collector contacted you? Before you say anything or make any payments, follow these steps informed by FDCPA rules, to protect yourself:

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6 steps for dealing with a debt collector

1. Don't give in to pressure to pay on first contact

Debt collectors may pressure you to act quickly, but don’t. Don’t pay, don't promise to pay, and don't give any payment information the collector may use later. Ask for information on the debt and say you'll call back to discuss it later.
Making a single payment — even just $5 or $10 — is an acknowledgment of the debt and can have serious repercussions. If the debt is past the statute of limitations (time-barred), for example, making a payment will reset that clock and could lead to a lawsuit or wage garnishment (where your employer is required to withhold a portion of your pay).

2. Gather the facts

Many sold debts have errors about the amount owed or even who owes it.
Debt collection practices are one of the largest sources of consumer complaints to the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau. Nearly 400,000 complaints were filed in 2025 on the matter .
If a debt collector contacts you, gather a few key pieces information to make sure it’s legit:
  • Request a validation letter from the debt collector if you don’t receive one within five business days of first contact. It should include details on the debt, the collection company and how to challenge the debt.
  • If the debt is yours, gather your own records, including information on the original creditor and your history of payments.
  • Keep good records of communication with the debt collector. You may want to use certified mail for the best documentation.

3. Know your rights around communicating with debt collectors

The FDCPA outlines your rights as a consumer and shields you from predatory collection tactics. For one, you can tell a debt collector to stop contacting you, and:
  • Debt collectors are prohibited from harassing or threatening you when trying to collect.
  • Debt collectors cannot mislead you about who they are, how much money you owe, or the legal repercussions of not paying your debt — for instance, by threatening arrest.

4. Submit a complaint if the debt collector violates your rights

Understand your federal and state protections in the debt collection process. You can file a complaint with the CFPB if your protections under the Fair Debt Collection Practices Act have been violated.
Your state may offer additional consumer protections. Your state's attorney general and the Federal Trade Commission are good resources.
Whether it's sending a letter to debt collectors to request more information on the debt, or demanding that a debt collector cease contact, know how to exercise your consumer rights.

5. Never ignore a court summons for debt collection

Lawsuits for collections accounts are a common and efficient way for collection agencies to get payment. These lawsuits can result in wage garnishment, and a bank levy or a lien on your property.
If this happens, you’ll want to hire an attorney who specializes in debt collection defense. If you can’t afford court costs, look for low-cost or free legal aid programs near you via the Legal Services Corporation or LawHelp.org.

6. Choose a debt payoff method or dispute debt collection

There are a few options for paying a collections account: setting up a payment plan, wiping out the debt with a single payment, or settling the debt to reduce the amount you owe.
  • No matter which option you choose, don't give the collector permission to access your bank account, either by providing your debit card number or setting up automated debits. If you make an agreement for a payment plan or to settle the debt for less than is owed, get the agreement in writing so you can hold the collector accountable.
Alternatively, you can dispute the debt if you think the information is incorrect, or ask for a goodwill deletion if you've already paid it off.
  • Send a written request to the debt collector and make a copy for yourself. If you challenge the debt within 30 days of first contact, the collector cannot ask for payment until the dispute is settled. After 30 days, you can still challenge the debt, but the collector can seek payment while the dispute is being investigated.

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