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We discuss some of the unique money challenges that millennials face, and how they can feel empowered to take charge of their financial wellness during tough times.
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What makes millennials and their financial challenges unique? There are many misconceptions about millennials as a generation — but like the generations before them, their financial wellness (or lack thereof) has been shaped by major events beyond their control.
As millennials grew up and navigated early adulthood, they faced recessions, the COVID-19 pandemic, rising student loan debt and a soaring cost of living. The result for many is discontent and a strained relationship with money.
In the first episode of our nerdy deep dive into millennials and their money, Nerdwallet personal finance writer Tiffany Curtis and host Sean Pyles discuss a recent announcement from the Pew Research Center about changes to how it will study and report on generations. They also chat about the role of social media in our financial lives and if they still believe in the American dream.
Tiffany also talks with Angela Moore, certified financial planner and founder of Modern Money Education, a financial education firm. Angela considers herself an “honorary millennial” and works with a variety of people to help them build a strong financial foundation. They discuss historic and present-day factors that have created millennials’ shaky relationship with money and ways that they can take ownership of their finances. That includes working with a professional to address financial trauma and finances, getting clear on financial goals and establishing what happiness looks like for them individually.
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Sean Pyles: If you are of a certain age, anywhere from your late 20s to your early 40s, you have no doubt found yourself at some point reduced to your generational status. You are a millennial. And while every generation has its benefits and burdens, some also bring a specific, shall we say, attitude to the table.
Angela Moore: I think that a lot of millennials are getting to the point where they do not care what their parents think, or anyone else for that matter, they want to focus on happiness. A big theme now is my job has to be fulfilling. My job has to make me happy. I have to enjoy what I'm doing to a certain extent, right? There has to be that balance to life and a lifestyle element to it.
Sean Pyles: Welcome to NerdWallet's Smart Money Podcast. I'm Sean Pyles.
Tiffany Curtis: And I'm Tiffany Curtis.
Sean Pyles: This episode kicks off our Nerdy deep dive into millennials and money. We're going to explore what makes millennials unique in how they make money, manage money and talk about money.
Tiffany Curtis: We're also going to explore how millennials have opened the door to wider conversations about generational financial trauma, and how they've gone about defying expectations about what their financial lives are supposed to look like.
Sean Pyles: OK. So, Tiffany, I am going to ask you the question that I ask all of our guest Nerds for these special series. Why are we doing this exactly? You and I are both millennials, so I'm guessing that is part of it.
Tiffany Curtis: Yes, that's definitely a part of it. I just turned 30.
Sean Pyles: Congrats.
Tiffany Curtis: Thank you. I wanted to do a special series on how we relate to money because there are a lot of myths about millennials and money. There's a misconception that we're simply bad with money, not working hard enough. It also feels like general financial advice and ideas about what financial wellness should look like don't take into account all of the significant events that we've lived through, and how those events and generational trauma impact our relationship with money.
Sean Pyles: Yeah, absolutely. And one thing that's really interesting to me is how the experiences we have at really formative times in our lives shape the way that we think about our own finances and the economy for years to come. Folks in Gen X and boomers also lived through things like the 2008 financial crisis and the COVID-19 pandemic, but by virtue of being in different places in their lives, they may have been shaped by these events in different ways than we millennials were.
Well, speaking of millennials, Tiffany, let's talk about this generation that we are a part of and also the whole idea of generations. First of all, can you please give our dear listener a refresher on how millennials are defined?
Tiffany Curtis: Yes. So, they're generally defined, as you mentioned at the top of the show, as people who are between 27 and 42 years old. So, they were born between 1981 and 1996, so their formative years happened during and around the millennium. Although if you were born in the early ’90s, you probably don't remember how wild Y2K was.
Sean Pyles: Y2K is such a throwback. I was 9 when Y2K happened, or I guess didn't happen. I spent New Year's Eve at my grandmother's house in small town Minnesota, and I remember being very bored, but also feeling like I was in a relatively safe spot in the event that every nuke in the world was detonated at once or something like that. We all thought that was maybe going to happen.
Well, I think we also do want to acknowledge some of the problems that arise when we divide people up into generations. Millennials are not really one monolith nor are boomers or people in Gen Z. And speaking of Gen Z, the boundaries between one generation and the next can feel a little bit arbitrary, and a lot of issues around money have nothing to do with whichever generation you're in. Having a tense or strained relationship with money isn't inherently unique to millennials.
Tiffany Curtis: That's true, but I think you can make a case that there's a collective discontentment in the millennial generation. And you can definitely argue that's the first generation to grow up with the internet ingrained in our lives. That makes us different from say, Generation X. We've also witnessed growing economic disparity and insecurity, and we're the first to stare down a life deeply affected by climate change. And I also think it's fair to say this generation is disillusioned with the American dream. I think we more openly question who that dream is for and whether it's something to still strive for.
Sean Pyles: Yeah, amen to that. When I talk about money and the future with many of my friends, who are predominantly millennials, many of them express a sense of despondence or that they feel like they'll never get ahead financially. But I don't want this to be too much of a bummer conversation.
So, Tiffany, let's talk about what is good. You mentioned the influence of the internet, and I would argue that has been a force for both good and bad. On the good side, it has allowed us to have really important conversations openly, publicly about all of those factors that you mentioned.
Tiffany Curtis: Agree.
Sean Pyles: And technology itself has brought changes to our financial lives. For example, do you ever even go inside banks anymore or even like a real old-fashioned brick and mortar store? We do have the world at our literal fingertips from the comfort of our couches.
Tiffany Curtis: Agree. I do still go into banks too, though.
Sean Pyles: Well, that is your own prerogative and good for you because I have not set foot in a bank in a long time.
Tiffany Curtis: But I remember when we were first talking about this series, we ran across some interesting perspectives on this whole “call me by my generation” question, didn't we?
Sean Pyles: We did, and I particularly want to cite the Pew Research Center, which issued an explainer this year that said it was going to change its approach to studying and reporting on generations. The biggest takeaway, I think, is that they're going to analyze generations when they have historical data that allows that comparison at similar stages of life. So, for example, they would look at people in their 30s and 40s across time instead of by arbitrary generational designations, and that makes sense to me.
Tiffany Curtis: Me too. But for now, we're kind of stuck with millennials as a generation, so let's talk about them.
Sean Pyles: Yeah, might as well, right?
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So, Tiffany, who are we going to hear from today?
Tiffany Curtis: Well, we're going to start today with Angela Moore. She's a certified financial planner and founder of Modern Money Education, a financial education firm. She's based in Florida and calls herself an honorary millennial.
Welcome, Angela. So, glad you could join us on Smart Money today.
Angela Moore: Thank you. I'm excited to be here.
Tiffany Curtis: So, let's start with an overview of where millennials are in their financial lives right now. What stands out to you as someone who does financial planning with millennials?
Angela Moore: I think what stands out the most is that there's just so many competing priorities because we're kind of like a sandwich generation. Many of us have parents that are getting up there in age, close to retirement age, so there's the need to potentially help them financially or help them plan for retirement, supplement their financial situation. And then, many of us are beginning or have children at this point, so there's the need to plan for our children and their education and their everyday expenses and needs.
And then, we still have all these competing personal financial priorities, whether it's our everyday bills or our student loans, purchasing a home or other goals, and there's so much more to add in there. We don't have the same type of retirement benefits that previous generations had, and housing prices and the cost of living in general has just skyrocketed.
Tiffany Curtis: What do you think are some specific events that have shaped this generation in terms of how we view the role of money and the attainment of it? I'm thinking about things like the 2008 financial crisis and of course the COVID pandemic. Can you talk about some of the ways that those events affected millennials' finances?
Angela Moore: Absolutely. The pandemic hit millennials very hard. The Center for Retirement Research at Boston College said that millennials were more likely to be laid off during the pandemic. The Pew Research Center said millennials were hit harder by the COVID-19 pandemic.
And so, I think that's just part of the story. The other part of it is that there was a study done by the National Institute on Retirement a while back that found that 66% of working millennials have nothing saved for retirement. I think one of the things that really hit home for a lot of millennials is that there's no stability here and that this system is not really working for us. And I didn't even mention the student loan situation. I mean, I've routinely seen clients that have $200, $300,000 of student loan debt. And so, I think that forces you to have to think outside the box and be creative.
If you're a millennial and you're seeing what's stacked against you, it's almost like, "OK. Well, how can I now separate myself from this situation and elevate? How can I transcend this situation?" It's not necessarily because millennials want to be creative and want to do everything differently. And then, it's almost like you're getting judged for wanting to be different, you're getting judged for not taking a traditional route.
One of the historic things that happened was our country did away with traditional retirement plans. Back in the day, a lot of U.S. workers had pension plans. And it became very expensive to maintain these types of traditional retirement accounts or pensions, and so a lot of companies began to move to 401(k)s and 403(b)s and kind of what we call contribution-type plans. And so what that did, it shifted the burden of saving for retirement from the employer to the employees. The traditional advice that older people got when they were younger, it doesn't work for our generation. It's not going to work.
Tiffany Curtis: So, what do you think is some of that traditional advice that isn't working for millennials anymore?
Angela Moore: I think the traditional advice is, "Go to college. Get a job. Save your money. Balance your checkbook." The standards hold true, but it's not enough anymore.
For someone who's just working an average job trying to save and trying to penny pinch and budget their way through their financial situation is not going to have enough money saved to live on all throughout retirement. If you do the math, if you look at, “Hey, let's say I start working when I'm 20 and I retire when I'm 65. OK, that's 45 years that I've worked.” But let's say that I live to be 100 or 95, let's say. That means that in the 40 years that I've worked, I need to have saved enough to live on another 30 years. And I'm supposed to be saving this money even with the high cost of living, the high cost of purchasing a house, the high cost of paying for education, the high cost of inflation. And on top of that, I'm also supposed to be navigating this tumultuous financial market, right? The investment market. It just doesn't add up.
Tiffany Curtis: So, I'm wondering if you can talk about some of the misconceptions that other generations might have about millennials, especially our relationship with money and how we manage it. How do you think millennials are seen by the rest of society?
Angela Moore: I think a lot of society, in the past especially, has looked at millennials as lazy, they don't want a job. I think those are the most common misconceptions I've heard.
But in working with mostly millennial clients, I have to differ with that. I think that millennials are some of the smartest clients I've ever had. They're extremely resourceful. They're extremely mature. It's not all about money for millennials, a lot of it is about health and wellness and balance, and I think that that's key.
I think a lot of millennials do have a sound mind and they are aware of the financial situation and concerned with it. I just think that it's hard. It's extremely complex. From a financial standpoint, I think that millennials have actually done an excellent job of being aware of their financial situation and taking steps to try to do the best that they can.
Tiffany Curtis: Where do you think they're coming from, the misconceptions?
Angela Moore: A lot of older people are not aware of how much it costs to go to college now. You can easily spend $80,000 a year on college now. And there's a lot of things that the older generations just were not exposed to.
Even finding a job. I mean, even me, when I graduated college, I graduated college in 2002, it was easy to find a job, but things are different now. Things are completely different. And even finding a livable wage, especially in some of these major cities — let's say you're earning $100,000, that's not a lot of money in a lot of these urban cities, in these environments. It doesn't go very far nowadays.
Tiffany Curtis: So, we talked about things that older generations may not have been exposed to. So, that makes me think of millennials and the internet and how we're kind of the first generation to really grow up in the age of the internet, and this big boom with social media especially. Can you walk us through the effect that you think that's had on how we view our finances? Do you think it's helped or hindered us?
Angela Moore: I think both. I think on the one hand, it's exposed us to so many different options, so many different career paths, so many opportunities that we wouldn't have had if we didn't have access to information.
But then on the other hand, there's the whole social media aspect and the comparing ourselves, and everyone's out here living their best life on a yacht in some tropical paradise or whatever. And it just makes you feel like you're broke compared to everyone else. There's a lot of influencer type of content out there. And it's hard when you are putting your head down and you're working and trying to earn income and trying to save and trying to just create something, and it just looks like everyone else is doing so much better than you.
It's both helped us in a lot of ways by giving us opportunities and exposure to things, but then at the same time, it can be devastating in a lot of ways as well and overwhelming. And so, subconsciously, you're holding yourself to that standard. It's almost impossible for us to separate the two internally in our brains.
Tiffany Curtis: I feel like when it comes to social media and millennials and finances, it very much feels like it just kind of amplifies that feeling of the haves and the have-nots, which makes me think of wealth inequality. There's a lot of research coming out about the wealth gap among millennials, especially racially, and the major difference in net worth between white millennials and black millennials and other millennials of color. And wealth inequality is a source of generational financial trauma. So, I'm wondering, what does generational financial trauma look like to you?
Angela Moore: I'll tell you a quick story. When I first got in the industry as a financial advisor, I was working at a huge brokerage firm and we had cubicles. And there was a young woman sitting across from me, and she was on the phone with her attorney discussing her prenuptial agreement like it was nothing. Just casually discussing what she would like to have in the prenup and all these different things. And I thought to myself, "Wow, I've never heard anyone talk about this."
And as I grew in this career, that's something I saw, is that there are certain families that talk about wealth, they talk about estate planning, they talk about business, they talk about investments, they talk about all these things at the dinner table on a routine basis. And in a lot of black and brown communities especially, you could go your whole life and you've never had a conversation about those things.
We're just not typically exposed. We're not at the table. We're not in the room. And obviously, I mean, we all know the history of this country, there are certain families that have had generational wealth that came all the way from slavery times. The same goes for poverty. There is poverty that has been passed down from generation to generation. It's a poverty mindset. It's lack of knowledge, even. It's behavioral patterns and habits that have been passed down. You saw your parents doing it, so you're doing it.
And it's not just that, then there's also obviously what kind of access to advice that you have. One of the things that really bothered me about my industry when I stepped back and thought about it later in my career was that most financial planning firms and brokerage firms, they cater to high-net-worth clients. And what that means is that they are looking for individuals that have at least a million dollars to invest with them. A lot of these companies don't even have any services that will cater to you at all. And so it's like, where do the rest of us go for financial advice?
But I do think that a lot of millennials, what's great about this is that because of the resources that we have, like the internet for example, people are beginning to take these matters into their own hands and they're educating themselves. They're reading books. They're finding people like me to help them. They're listening to things like this. They are really trying to empower themselves, which we've always done, but there's now this access to information that wasn't really available before.
Tiffany Curtis: And speaking of empowerment, what kind of advice do you give to your clients about how to deal with generational financial trauma?
Angela Moore: I think that seeking professional help in terms of therapy is not talked about. There's trauma, there's mindset and hindering beliefs a lot of times. So, seeking therapy.
The other thing is associating yourself with like-minded people who are also trying to empower themselves. So, find a Facebook group or whatever it is of people who are trying to financially empower themselves.
And then lastly, find a professional to help you get your finances in order, whether that's a financial coach, financial advisor, financial planner, an investment advisor, whatever. There's a lot of different types of financial professionals out there that can help you. There's even student loan specialists out there. So, there's just a lot of help nowadays and resources.
Tiffany Curtis: You've touched on some resources already, but given everything that we've talked about that millennials are navigating when it comes to their financial lives, what are some steps that they can take toward financial wellness right now? Immediately, as soon as they're done listening to this, what sort of things can they do?
Angela Moore: Yes. So, the first thing you can do is take ownership and get organized. You want to have clarity around your current financial situation.
So, the first step is write out a budget, write down all of your monthly expenses and also any debt that you owe, anything like that. List it all on a piece of paper or a spreadsheet or whatever, just so you can have clarity around that. And then, also, list out how much income are you bringing home every month, and then compare. How much is coming in versus how much is going out? That's the very first step.
Once you've done that, you want to focus in on your goals. So, many people have no clue what they're trying to accomplish when it comes to financial situations. You could maybe have some short-term goals, maybe some long-term goals.
But then the next step is aligning your budget with those goals, right? Every month money's coming in. Are you allocating that money in a way that aligns with what you are trying to accomplish in your life? That is the key. If your money's just coming in and going out to all these random places and it's not intentional, you're not being intentional about how you're spending or where you're putting your money, then that's where chaos sinks in.
After that, I would say focusing in on eliminating debt, making sure you have an emergency fund saved, then reviewing your insurance, car insurance, really important, all the different types of insurance. Disability insurance, you should know what disability insurance is, and you need to make sure you have it because disability insurance is insuring your income. If something happens and you are disabled and can no longer work, how are you going to save for retirement? How are you going to buy a house? How are you going to do anything? So, you need to make sure that you're insuring your income with disability insurance.
And then, another thing is estate planning. Everyone thinks that estate planning is only for wealthy people, but that's not the case. All of us should do an estate plan because an estate plan says, "Hey, if I'm ever in the hospital, who do I want making medical decisions for me? Who do I want to have access to my finances to be able to pay my bills and make sure my business keeps flowing and all these different things?"
Tiffany Curtis: It makes me think about how millennials are or aren't redefining what financial wellness feels and looks like for them. So, I'm wondering if you could talk through, what do you think that looks like? Do you think that we're redefining financial wellness? If we are, how?
Angela Moore: Absolutely. I think that a lot of millennials are getting to the point where they do not care what their parents think, or anyone else for that matter, they want to focus on happiness. And so, a big theme now is, my job has to be fulfilling. My job has to make me happy. I have to enjoy what I'm doing to a certain extent, right? There has to be, like I mentioned earlier, that balance to life and a lifestyle element to it.
I think the other thing is that a lot of millennials are doing what I call thinking outside the box. They are creating their own realities. A lot of millennials are starting to create their own businesses. They are leaving corporate America. They are creating new, innovative ways to make money and create multiple streams of income.
And they're realizing that they need to increase their income in order to achieve financial stability. And I also think, you know, challenging societal norms. A lot of millennials are not trying to buy a house, some are not trying to get married. People are really looking at, "What makes me happy and what can I do to live the life I want to live in the most authentic way possible, instead of what society expects of me?" And so, that's something I see that is unique to millennials.
Tiffany Curtis: So, it sounds like the onus is on millennials a lot to come up with these creative solutions and figure out how to do things in a nontraditional way, because like you said, the system isn't working for us. But if you could, how would you like to see the system better support millennials?
Angela Moore: Well, I think a lot of it is political, and I think we're seeing that some leaders are trying to address issues. Obviously, there's a whole lot of issues to be addressed, and so sometimes our particular issues don't take precedence, but I think that they should. Because the baby boomer generation, which is our parents' generation, they are aging. They're retiring, going into Social Security. So, the onus falls on the current working class to fund Social Security for them and fund retirement for them. And because there's not as many of us, there's a strain on the system.
These are all major, major concerns. When you add it up and do the math, it's not going to work out unless something changes. So, I think that hopefully as we become leaders and get into leadership, that we can help push forward change.
Tiffany Curtis: Angela Moore, thank you so much for helping us out today, and helping us kick off the series.
Angela Moore: The pleasure is all mine. Thank you.
Sean Pyles: I love how Angela talked about the importance of empowerment and community. You two discussed a number of big challenges that the millennial generation is facing: wealth inequality, generational trauma, a difficult housing market. And these issues are real and hard to navigate. But at the end of the day, we still do have agency, right? We can decide what to do with our finances and can work to better our situations, even if the broader economic and societal context is difficult.
Tiffany Curtis: We do have agency. We get to decide what our financial priorities are. And I think with open and honest conversations like these, we move a little bit closer to improving our relationship with money, while we continue to hope that systemic change is on the way.
Sean Pyles: Exactly. Hoping that systemic change is on the way and taking action to make that happen. So, Tiffany, Angela touched on this a bit, but I know in our next episode we're going to dive even further into the idea of generational financial trauma.
Tiffany Curtis: Yeah, we're going to talk with two guests who have spent a lot of time counseling and educating millennials on how generational trauma intersects with our finances and how we may not even realize that said trauma is at the root of our relationship with money.
Aja Evans: When we start talking about financial trauma, in general, I think that there is a conversation that assumes people were coming from a place of poverty. And yes, that is very, very true for a lot of people, but there are also people who were raised in middle class, upper middle class wealthy families who are dealing with generational traumas of their own with money.
Tiffany Curtis: For now, that's all we have for this episode. Do you have a money question of your own? Turn to the Nerds and call or text us your questions at 901-730-6373. That's 901-730-NERD. You can also email us [email protected]. Also visit nerdwallet.com/podcast for more info on this episode. And remember to follow, rate and review us wherever you're getting this podcast.
Sean Pyles: This episode was produced by Tess Vigeland and Tiffany Curtis. I helped with editing. Liz Weston helped with fact-checking. Kaely Monahan mixed our audio. And a big thank you to the folks on the NerdWallet copy desk for all their help. Also, a special shout out to Kathy Hinson for all of her help on the series.
Tiffany Curtis: And here's our brief disclaimer, we are not financial or investment advisors. This Nerdy info is provided for general educational and entertainment purposes and may not apply to your specific circumstances.
Sean Pyles: And with that said, until next time, turn to the Nerds.